The Dangerous Side Of Financial Advice Nobody Talks About
Why Borrowing Other People's Convictions Can Become an Expensive Financial Mistake
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Sneha Rege
6/21/20263 min read
A few years ago, I stopped seriously looking at buying a bigger house.
Not because I couldn't afford one. Not because I had carefully analysed my own situation and concluded that staying in the current apartment was the better choice.
The truth is far less sophisticated. I stopped because almost every smart person on the internet seemed to agree that buying a home was a poor financial decision.
The arguments sounded convincing. Residential real estate had low rental yields. Equity offered better long-term returns. Real estate was illiquid. Renting provided flexibility. The mathematics appeared clear and the people making these arguments sounded intelligent.
So I listened.
Looking back, I realise something important. The problem was not that their advice was necessarily wrong. The problem was that I slowly stopped doing my own thinking.
Social media has transformed personal finance in many positive ways. Twenty years ago, most people learned about money from insurance agents, bank relationship managers, relatives, or neighbours. Today, anyone with an internet connection can learn about investing, retirement planning, taxation, asset allocation, and behaviour.
That access to information is unquestionably valuable.
The challenge is that many people no longer outsource their thinking to agents. They outsource it to personalities.
The process is subtle enough that most of us never notice it happening. You follow someone because they explain things well. Over time, you begin trusting their judgment. Eventually, their conclusions start feeling like your own conclusions, even though you never really tested them against your own circumstances.
Real estate is probably one of the clearest examples.
For years, several respected finance personalities publicly argued against buying residential property. The arguments were logical and often mathematically sound. Renting appeared more efficient. Capital could be invested elsewhere. Equity looked likely to generate superior long-term returns.
Many people listened carefully.
Some delayed buying homes. Some postponed the decision for years. Some convinced themselves that home ownership was an outdated aspiration that only financially uninformed people chased.
Then something interesting happened.
A number of these same personalities eventually bought homes themselves. Not modest homes purchased reluctantly, but premium homes in desirable locations. Suddenly, discussions expanded beyond rental yields and opportunity costs.
Stability mattered. Family needs mattered. Lifestyle mattered. Emotional comfort mattered.
To be clear, there is nothing wrong with changing one's mind. In fact, changing your mind when circumstances change is often the rational thing to do.
The uncomfortable part is what happens to the people who acted on the earlier conviction.
A wealthy entrepreneur can change course at any point. An ordinary salaried professional who postponed buying a home for five years cannot rewind property prices and start over. The consequences of that decision remain entirely theirs.
The same pattern appears repeatedly in investing.
Every few months, a new financial success story captures attention. Someone reaches financial independence using fixed deposits. Someone builds wealth through concentrated stock investing. Someone retires early through real estate. Someone achieves a large corpus while taking very little investment risk.
The story spreads rapidly. The context rarely does.
What often remains invisible are the factors sitting quietly in the background: inheritance, stock options, foreign income, family wealth, business ownership, or simply an unusually high starting corpus. None of these diminish the achievement. They do, however, change the lesson dramatically.
A person managing ₹10 crore can afford to think differently about risk than someone trying to build their first crore. Yet social media frequently presents both situations as though they belong to the same playbook.
They do not.
The problem is not that influencers, entrepreneurs, fund managers, or content creators are dishonest. Most are simply speaking from their own experience. The problem is that listeners often mistake someone else's reality for a universal rule.
A founder experiences risk differently from a salaried employee. Someone with family wealth experiences risk differently from someone supporting parents, children, and a home loan. Someone who receives stock options experiences risk differently from someone whose entire financial future depends on monthly savings.
These differences matter far more than the headline advice itself.
The older I get, the less interested I am in copying financial conclusions. I still enjoy reading different perspectives. I still learn from people who have achieved things I haven't. But I increasingly treat opinions as inputs rather than instructions.
The reason is simple.
If a public figure changes their mind five years later, they move on with their life. If I build my financial plan around that opinion, I live with the consequences.
The real danger of social media advice is not bad advice. Bad advice is often easy to identify. The greater danger is good advice taken out of context.
Advice that sounds intelligent. Advice that genuinely worked for the person giving it. Advice that slowly becomes part of your belief system without ever being tested against your own circumstances.
Most financial mistakes are not born from ignorance. They are born from borrowed conviction.
And borrowed conviction can be an expensive way to build a financial life.